ARIZONA'S NEWEST SOBER SOCIAL EVENT LOUNGE

RIGHT PLACE. RIGHT TIME. 


EVENTS

COME IN AND PARTY WITH US AT DOWNSIDE UP!


WHO WE ARE

Founded by dynamic mother-daughter duo Aniessa Wong and Gail Elbourne, Downside Up started as a simple idea with a powerful mission. In a world where real connections are fading behind screens, life has become too busy, leaving many to rely on dating apps and social media for interaction. We believe it's time for a change. At Downside Up, we’re on a mission to unite people through unforgettable, interactive events designed for those tired of endless swiping and scrolling.

As a non-alcoholic bar, we offer a refreshing, healthier alternative for those seeking a social space without the pressure of alcohol. Come join us to relax, connect, and create lasting memories in a vibrant atmosphere that encourages real conversation and meaningful relationships. It's time to rediscover the joy of face-to-face connections, have fun, and make memories that will last a lifetime.

There's a party & you're invited

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CUSTOMER

Testimonials

I just came back from an event they hosted for speed-friending. I have never met the most enjoyable owners. Hardworking and passionate people who just want people to get a chance to meet someone new without the need of a screen. I will come back for future events and also just nights where I need to escape the scary world, talk to someone. A frequent customer or a new customer will ALWAYS feel welcome, and warmed up. I highly recommend coming here and supporting these beautiful people!

Jerize

This is a beautiful and inspiring establishment, owned by two incredible Black queens—a powerhouse mother-daughter duo. They’ve created a welcoming space that offers a wide variety of events for people from all walks of life to come together, connect, and create.

What makes this place truly special is its uplifting, sober-friendly environment. It proves that you don’t need alcohol to have a great time or feel inspired—just good energy, community, and creativity. The atmosphere is both motivating and refreshing, and you can feel it the moment you walk through the door.

I highly recommend this space to anyone looking to express themselves, be surrounded by creative minds, or simply recharge in a positive, empowering environment.

SIDE NOTE: Please try their Forbidden Balls! That sweet-heat flavor hits the spot!

Elexus

The owners managed to combine a cool groove / club experience w/ the fun and feeling of an intimate night in with your best friends. Calling the staff (and clientele) attractive feels like a disservice. Come out for delicious drinks on open mic night, and be ready for a great time. When it comes time to leave, you’ll feel bad about it in the best way.

Jordan S